time for a change
A Message from the Founder

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Photo by: Tiffany Rude Photography
To all readers of God'z Gurlz web magazine ... 

I started God'z Gurlz in 2011 as an online magazine for Christian women, with contributors coming from different parts of the US, and other countries including Brazil and Canada. Due to the difficulties of maintaining the site and managing the group of writers, I turned this webmag to a personal blog, and eventually the official web magazine for Step Out Ministries International, a non-profit organization I set up in 2016.

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THE YEAR 2019

The year 2019 will be marked by the rising of women in high places in politics and business. More laws for women’s protection and rights will be passed. More opportunities will be opened for them. This rise in power will create more uprising. READ MORE ...

me too!

At our women's gathering yesterday, October 27, 2018, I was led by the Holy Spirit to talk about a very controversial issue of women affecting the country: The ME TOO movement. READ MORE ...

marching in: the year 5779

The year 5778 (September 21, 2017 to September 9, 2018) was the season when the Holy Spirit began to shift you and bring you to a process of healing and purging ...  READ MORE...

are you  a queen?

Every woman has a royal DNA in her blood, simply because she came from a King. This is why she is drawn to anything that represents royalty. However, until she comes ... Read more ... 

OUR MINISTRY

The New
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God'z Gurlz is now the official web magazine of Step Out, a Christian, Non-Profit organization. All our contributors are members of the ministry: board members, officers, volunteer workers, and coaches. 
This new book translates Heavenly principles to a natural language that will transform your personal and professional lives. 
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This bestselling book is changing women and restoring marriages.
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Your True Calling
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Devotional/Study Book

HOW LONG SHOULD I FIGHT FOR MY MARRIAGE?

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This is one of the most common question I’ve gotten from women I counsel or those who come to me for answers. It is indeed a tough situation, more so for a woman whose husband left her for another woman, or for a woman whose husband already ... READ MORE ...

THE CHAMELEON SPIRIT

YOU CAN'T FIX HIM!
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​What I am going to expose in this article is the devil's nightmare. He hates being exposed, which is why he hides behind masks. He uses people to trick others, and to conceal who he really is. 
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A major lesson I had to learn within my marriage is that it is not my job to fix my husband. Yet for years this is what I tried to do. My efforts were mostly met with resistance.  READ MORE ...

DO YOU KNOW YOUR PURPOSE?

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 A woman gets married. Her whole life revolves around her husband.  She makes him and her marriage her purpose. Years later her  husband leaves her for another woman. She is devastated. She is  lost! She doesn’t even know where to begin. She has lost her  purpose. Has she?
 
 A mother raised her daughter to be a successful doctor. She worked  so hard to send her to school, even getting in deep debt over it. The  daughter followed her mom’s wishes and became who she wanted  her to be. Has she found her purpose?
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secret garden

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 How I wish I can bring all of you to my secret garden and see what I  see. How I wish I can sit down there and marvel with you, as we go to  places where no man or woman can ever take you. I know I can invite  you; but for you to experience what I experience, you have to discover  your own secret garden first. Only then will you understand what I am  talking about.
 
 For those of you who have found that place, join me as I share my  escapades, adventure, and private moments. For those who have not  been there, this is probably the only time when I would want people to  be envious of what I have -- so they too can experience its beauty and  loveliness.​ READ MORE...

I CAN'T HEAR!

There have been a number of people who came to me asking the same question: How do I hear clearly from God? I have given them tips, based on my own experience. READ MORE ... 

DON'T CROSS THE LINE

Whatever the reasons are, the fact remains that there are lines we should not even dare cross when it comes to our dealings with the opposite gender. READ MORE ...

ten mistakes
single women of god make  
in waiting for their promised man

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Who I am in this walk is based from what I have learned. And most of what I have learned is from the mistakes that I have committed, and what others have committed as well.
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Why Worry?

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Worry starts with a little feeling that can grow bigger and bigger. It is a disease that slowly eats us up and can lead to severe depression.  It is a disease that can take over our lives and control us, hindering us from allowing God to work in our lives. 

The fallen world we live in brings about circumstances that are meant to make us worry. READ MORE ...

THE WIFE: THE ARMOUR-BEARER

What I will share with you will change your view of your role as a wife, and marriage in general. It will make you see that most of your problems are not what ... READ MORE ...

TO GUARD OR NOT TO GUARD
​(MY HEART)

We are to guard our hearts because all our deep seated issues are buried within. This does not mean guarding our hearts from getting hurt. It means ... READ MORE ​
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GOD IS A GOD OF PROCESS
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WORLDLY FRIENDSHIPS vs GODLY FRIENDSHIPS
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IS HE THE RIGHT ONE FOR ME?

RELATIONSHIPS
Single Mom's Journey

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All those years I heard two voices inside of me:  the mother who kept telling me, “You are not a teenager anymore. You have two boys you are responsible for”; and the young Lisa who kept saying, “You have been deprived of your youth. You deserve to enjoy life”. It was a constant battle between the teenager in me that was forced to grow up early, and the mother in me who was doing her best to be responsible for her two boys. The more the adult Lisa in me tried to control the young Lisa in me, the more rebellious the young one got. But in her rebellion there was always that plaguing guilt. Vivid pictures of my boys played in my mind over and over again while I was sleeping with a man or partying with my friends. It almost drove me crazy. I wanted to run away but I could not. I felt trapped! READ MORE ... 

INSPIRATIONAL
COMING TO TERMS

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There is a reason why God has allowed you to remain where you are. He is teaching you something -- something about yourself that is necessary for your next step. This is where self-examination begins.

While God is the only One who can show you to yourself, He uses situations such as where you are now, to reveal yourself to you. So here you are focusing on your situation, and even other people, when God is actually leading you to yourself. God knows that the change has to come from within you, otherwise even if He changes your situation, your issues will still be there and will just manifest itself in a different form next time. READ MORE 
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AWAKENING OF A CATHOLIC
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LONG-DISTANCE LOVE
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STOP LOOKING AT ME

HEART TO HEART
One Blow After The Next

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I don’t know how many times I’ve been in this “one blow after the next” situation.  All I know is that it is not something I want to go through.  Yet God allows me to go through it every now and then.  Why?  READ MORE...

BUSINESS AND WORK
Successful Negotiations

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Success in negotiation is not only getting your “preferred decision” approved but keeping everybody on the negotiation table at peace with your preference. 
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MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIPS
God's Bigger Plan For Your Marriage

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If we will only see the bigger plan of God in our marriage, we would not be fretting about little stuff.  We would not be wasting time on petty arguments.  We would not be complaining about unfairness or be fighting about equal rights.  READ MORE ... 

BUSINESS & WORK
Work From Home

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You need to be creative in order to break the monotony of your day-to-day routine work at home.  I mean, your home is where you eat, sleep, and relax.  
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BUSINESS, WORK, AND LEADERSHIP
Communicate More Effectively

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The problem is, when somebody is talking, the other person is already formulating in her mind what to say next. When this happens, she becomes more concerned about what she is hearing in her own mind than what the other person is trying to express. What she may say may not even be related to what the other one is communicating. READ MORE ... 

Meet The Lover Of Our Souls

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Women were created to be loved, taken care of, and adored. Yet, all of us have experienced the opposite of this, at some point in our lives. As a result, we crave for love yet we are also scared of it. READ MORE ...

STEP OUT: Online coaching

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You can email concerns or questions about anything related to emotions, marriage, family, career, relationships, parenting, or life in general.  This is strictly for women. READ MORE ... 

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